Many people believe (because we have long been told from movies) that there is a person who fits our specific requirements and it is just a case of finding him. Some people probably do. But most people in happy, stable relationships have partners who meet some of the important qualities rather than all of their requirements.
Supportive acceptance to each other’s shortcomings, real or perceived is the foundation of a relationship. After all nobody is perfect (Except Of Course “ME”). By rejecting any person you meet, who does not immediately appear absolutely right for you, you are missing out on knowing some wonderful people, one of whom could turn out to be “The One” for you.
Finding the “Right Person” is about finding yourself, knowing what you are and what is important to you. If fantastic looks are important to you that is fine but ultimately a person who makes you happy from day to day is more of an asset than the handsome hunk you would have preferred.
Many people are afraid of intimacy. This fear is closely related to the fear of abandonment and rejection. Perhaps these people think on a subconscious and unintentional level, that once he gets to know you he won’t like you. So you reject him before he can reject you. Take a hard, honest look at yourself and ask is this what you want. Do not think I’m not worthy. You should try to reinvent yourself and your place in the world. You should become whole before becoming somebody’s half.
Always feel confident about yourself. Love yourself. If you do not love yourself, the vibes you give off repel other person from you and it is a great inhibitor to being liked by others. Do not have any inferiority complex. Always believe in yourself. Remember it is you and your feeling that is important in your life.
Supportive acceptance to each other’s shortcomings, real or perceived is the foundation of a relationship. After all nobody is perfect (Except Of Course “ME”). By rejecting any person you meet, who does not immediately appear absolutely right for you, you are missing out on knowing some wonderful people, one of whom could turn out to be “The One” for you.
Finding the “Right Person” is about finding yourself, knowing what you are and what is important to you. If fantastic looks are important to you that is fine but ultimately a person who makes you happy from day to day is more of an asset than the handsome hunk you would have preferred.
Many people are afraid of intimacy. This fear is closely related to the fear of abandonment and rejection. Perhaps these people think on a subconscious and unintentional level, that once he gets to know you he won’t like you. So you reject him before he can reject you. Take a hard, honest look at yourself and ask is this what you want. Do not think I’m not worthy. You should try to reinvent yourself and your place in the world. You should become whole before becoming somebody’s half.
Always feel confident about yourself. Love yourself. If you do not love yourself, the vibes you give off repel other person from you and it is a great inhibitor to being liked by others. Do not have any inferiority complex. Always believe in yourself. Remember it is you and your feeling that is important in your life.
4 comments:
Well, let me be terse: simply a mind boggling piece!
You should become whole before becoming somebody’s half.
Hmmmm...THAT WAS PREETY WELL-SAID!!!BUT IS THERE ANY POSSIBILITY THAT U CAN REMAIN WHOLE FOR UR WHOLE LIFE!!!!HUH??
i sincerely hope this article would be an eye opener to some of the guys especially girls.
GREAT....
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